GODLIKE If You've Never Used One Before
The step I skipped was the boring one. Two minutes of it would have saved the first three sessions.
A first-time walkthrough for GODLIKE: which end goes where, how to start at 1 of 8 settings, and the 10 minutes that decide whether you'll use it again.
The Short Answer
Start with the external end, on the lowest of the 8 settings, for 10 minutes. Don't insert anything on night one. Get comfortable holding the 9-inch body and finding an angle your wrist can keep for 20 minutes, then add the second motor on a later session. The first time is a test drive, not a performance. If it feels like a procedure, you're doing too much at once, and that's the most common reason a device ends up in a drawer.
Before the Device Comes Out
Two minutes of setup decides most of the experience. Wash your hands, put a towel down, and have water-based lubricant within reach before you start. Charge it first, because a device that dies at minute 8 is a device you won't reach for again. A full charge takes about 90 minutes, so this is a planning step, not a spontaneous one.
Picture this: 10 p.m., the room is quiet, and you've decided tonight is the night. The version of that scene that works has the device already charged, the lubricant already open, and no expectation about how it ends. The version that doesn't work involves a dead battery and a search for a cable. If you'd rather not plan that far ahead, charge it on a Sunday and leave it ready for the week; that one habit removes the biggest practical downside of a rechargeable device.

Which End First
GODLIKE has 2 motors, one at the tip and one along the shaft. The external end is the wider, flatter side, and that's where to start. It's more forgiving, it gives you immediate feedback about pressure, and it doesn't require you to find an angle on the first try. Lie on your side with your knees slightly bent. That position shortens the reach and takes the strain off your shoulder.
Use the flat of the end rather than the tip. Pressure should feel like a hand resting, not a hand pressing. If you're gripping the handle hard enough that your knuckles are pale, you're overcorrecting, and the curved handle exists precisely so you don't have to. Let the handle do the work and keep your shoulder down.
The 10-Minute First Session
Ten minutes on the lowest setting, then stop regardless of what happened. That's the assignment. The point is to learn three things: where the device feels best, which hand holds it comfortably, and whether the lowest setting is already enough. Many people find it is, at least for the first few weeks.
If you want to try the second motor, do it on session 2 or 3, not session 1. Add one variable at a time. When both motors run together, the sensation gets complicated fast, and it's hard to tell which part you'd want to change. One zone, one setting, one position is the whole first week. The catch is that this pace feels slow, and slow is the point.

When to Stop and Reset
Stop if anything pinches, if you're holding your breath, or if you've been at it for 20 minutes and you're mostly aware of the time. Those are signals to change one thing, not to push through. Turn it off, put it down, and come back in a few minutes or tomorrow. There's no session quota to meet.
The reset also applies to sound. If you're worried about being heard, the lower settings sit under 45 dB at a meter, which is quieter than a normal conversation. Start there and stay there. Worry is a bigger obstacle than volume, and it's easier to solve with a closed door and a towel under the device than with a new setting. Try the setup at 11 p.m. once, when the building is quiet, and you'll know what your walls actually transmit.
Who Should Wait
If you're recovering from surgery, dealing with pain, or navigating a new diagnosis, wait and talk to a clinician first. This is a general-education guide, not a green light for every body. Likewise, if you already know you don't want internal stimulation, the second motor is weight you'll pay for and never use, and a simpler external-only device is the better first purchase. Skip this one if the idea of a learning curve is itself the turnoff; a smaller single-purpose device will get used more.
The First Purchase, Decided
If you're starting from zero, buy the one that gives you room to learn slowly.
- GODLIKE: Two independently controlled motors, 8 settings, and a curved handle that keeps your wrist neutral. Starting on the external end at the lowest setting is genuinely comfortable, which is what makes it a reasonable first device rather than an ambitious one.
- Browse the Customer Favorites collection for first-timer picks and the lubricant most people pair with them.
- Related reading: where to start if you've never used one, and what to do when your partner hasn't either.
- Also new this week: what maintenance looks like two months in.
Sources
- Cleveland Clinic — general patient information on sexual health and comfort
- Planned Parenthood — education on lubrication and product use
- Mayo Clinic — guidance on pelvic discomfort and when to seek care
This article is general education about first-time product use, not medical advice. If you have pain, a new diagnosis, or recent surgery, speak with a clinician before use.




